tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17646926.post8250265849617832512..comments2024-03-23T04:05:16.364-04:00Comments on Raw Dawg Buffalo: bustedAll-Mi-T [Thought Crime] Rawdawgbuffalohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08843040863123899426noreply@blogger.comBlogger53125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17646926.post-14273891578266481022008-02-25T21:35:00.000-05:002008-02-25T21:35:00.000-05:00Flimflam - tell me , what u do in denver, with Tia...Flimflam - tell me , what u do in denver, with Tiaa-Cref, they made me a lot of lootAll-Mi-T [Thought Crime] Rawdawgbuffalohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08843040863123899426noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17646926.post-73888104316798511882008-02-25T18:28:00.000-05:002008-02-25T18:28:00.000-05:00anon - wasnt that stupid LOLDusty aint that the tr...anon - wasnt that stupid LOL<BR/><BR/>Dusty aint that the truth.<BR/><BR/><BR/>Flimflam. -True. I should have told her instead of having her walk in on me. She could have kept al of her good actions for someone who apreciated and deserved themAll-Mi-T [Thought Crime] Rawdawgbuffalohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08843040863123899426noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17646926.post-82735812065569667562008-02-25T16:27:00.000-05:002008-02-25T16:27:00.000-05:00Personally, I wouldn't have said anything. I woul...Personally, I wouldn't have said anything. I would have picked up my food, given some eye contact and bounced! I'd then wait on her to mention it and continue with my daily/normal life. If she doesn't see fit to ever mention it again, I'm at fault for being in a relationship with a woman whom isn't ready for me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17646926.post-26594239483742664842008-02-22T16:14:00.000-05:002008-02-22T16:14:00.000-05:00Obviously the hurt was deep-seated for her to brin...Obviously the hurt was deep-seated for her to bring it up 10 years later. <BR/><BR/>I judge no one lest I think for one minute I am perfect..which btw..I surely am not. ;)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06698117410778232102noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17646926.post-26700074806949590432008-02-21T16:55:00.000-05:002008-02-21T16:55:00.000-05:00I just hope you were not stupid enough to call her...I just hope you were not stupid enough to call her back and tell her you loved her.....that would mean you thought she was stupidAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17646926.post-89728168952480616872008-02-21T16:45:00.000-05:002008-02-21T16:45:00.000-05:00msladydeborah - thanks. I have grown, and i will ...msladydeborah - thanks. I have grown, and i will make better choices, i know if it hapened to me that i shuld stay away from such a person<BR/><BR/>Televisiontraci - i agree, and games are for children.<BR/><BR/>Gigi - i do consider myself a man, and thank for the kind blessings and words<BR/><BR/>Marleaux - so is that an invite to Vegas LOL. "couldn’t even buy her a drink? And you still tried to call her afterwards" yep foul, i cant add to what u have to sayAll-Mi-T [Thought Crime] Rawdawgbuffalohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08843040863123899426noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17646926.post-67053894749176010212008-02-21T09:51:00.000-05:002008-02-21T09:51:00.000-05:00Better late than never. I think the ability you h...Better late than never. I think the ability you have NOW to see what you did and admit that it was wrong comes with age. Sometimes maturity shines a light on our mistakes when we were younger. Not everyone matures at the same rate.Televisiontracihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11666600524962535608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17646926.post-23382122259755383562008-02-21T09:43:00.000-05:002008-02-21T09:43:00.000-05:00interesting post torrance (yes i'm late on this..l...interesting post torrance (yes i'm late on this..lol). personally, i can forgive but i don't forget. but hey, you were young, virile and what my momma would say.. just itchin..lol. not many men will admit being wrong, but you did and that's a good sign in my book.GiGi - The Shy Giraffehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16310657825150829668noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17646926.post-69760219072260394722008-02-21T01:47:00.000-05:002008-02-21T01:47:00.000-05:00See men, I don’t understand, sometimes, yall just ...See men, I don’t understand, sometimes, yall just don’t think about things in a full 360. You went to her spot on a Friday night at 750, knowing she goes there every Friday at 800 to get her some wings… It wasn’t any other spot you could have taken that ‘broad” lmao. Like John Legend says, “sneak to DC for just a day or two” Meaning, we’re going to drive about 50 miles down the way and kick it, instead of displaying the other chick on his girlfriend’s front porch. Like, if it was me, I would meet up with some1 in Vegas. I go there 4 times a year, so it’s not out of the ordinary and my boyfriend hates it, so he never tags along. But that’s how a woman thinks. And that’s why we never get caught… Actually, that last line pertains to my girls, not I.<BR/><BR/>But, dayum, that was foul: you couldn’t even buy her a drink? And you still tried to call her afterwards. She’ll probably never forget that experience. Doesn’t mean she isn’t over it though. I’m sure every time she has a girl’s night out, your name is mentioned in an unsavory way. I have a few that I still talk about, but no hard feelings attached, just funny, yet pitiful stories.<BR/><BR/>But since you said “she was kind, honest and sincere and would have done anything for me, even without me asking,” do you think she could have been the one to quench your penchant for commitment.Marleauxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13704327925911836523noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17646926.post-5671089348503911662008-02-20T23:31:00.000-05:002008-02-20T23:31:00.000-05:00I have had this happen to me and I must say that i...I have had this happen to me and I must say that it just made me more determined to try and make better choices.<BR/><BR/>I hate public drama. I try not to make a damn fool of myself in the company of strangers. Which has probably kept me from ending up in the women's prison over the years :-)!<BR/><BR/>When you become wise~the things that happened in the past open up in our thoughts from an entirely different perspective. What seemed to be the right thing then~is often seen as some kind of wrong later on.<BR/><BR/>What I like about this particular admission is the fact that you admit all the head trips that were working then and now.<BR/><BR/>Celebrate your growth as a individual. There are still plenty of people who have not been able to admit that they were wrong.msladyDeborahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17593695415626632490noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17646926.post-29690822420371002582008-02-20T14:39:00.000-05:002008-02-20T14:39:00.000-05:00all - so trueMalik - is that u jones, hit me up, a...all - so true<BR/><BR/>Malik - is that u jones, hit me up, and u knoe stil don answer calls restricted or from numbrs i dont know LOLAll-Mi-T [Thought Crime] Rawdawgbuffalohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08843040863123899426noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17646926.post-69605883346377018332008-02-20T14:31:00.000-05:002008-02-20T14:31:00.000-05:00I would make sure he saw me...made it so he had to...I would make sure he saw me...made it so he had to acknowledge me...<BR/><BR/>Then I'd leave.<BR/>I'd be done.<BR/><BR/>I guess I am like that because if I did that to someone...I'd expect the same treatment...for them to be done with me. <BR/>I can recognize my fuck up's..I don't try to put blame. I'd apologize but I wouldn't try and get the person back in good graces. I knew the consequences. <BR/><BR/>None of us are brand new to this game. We know our boundries...or foul lines.Blah Blah Blahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07551608249012287650noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17646926.post-85062028134337408752008-02-20T14:30:00.000-05:002008-02-20T14:30:00.000-05:00Yo God, Malik . LMAO. That was foul. I know you...Yo God, Malik . LMAO. That was foul. I know you, she was expendable, like your days at D House, you didnt love her. LOve is action not words, I bet you may have lied to her a number of times before that and didn take her cals when you were out on the troll LOL. Godd question though, how would you feel if it happened to you...you wen back and set with your date, God, not you. LOL. No, that wasn't Love, you were using herAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17646926.post-72168661818426229332008-02-20T13:56:00.000-05:002008-02-20T13:56:00.000-05:00Im with Ms. Jackson, she must have been one classy...Im with Ms. Jackson, she must have been one classy lady. Too classy for you, lol! You could've bought her a drink at least!Samii Styleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08806033852015857093noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17646926.post-56540514867448041912008-02-20T13:47:00.000-05:002008-02-20T13:47:00.000-05:00Kudos to that woman for handling it the way she di...Kudos to that woman for handling it the way she did. That had to make you feel worse. I hope I never have to deal with a situation like that, but I hope I would conduct myself the way that she did.Ms. Jacksonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05039713661764821037noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17646926.post-12847998233961471322008-02-20T03:16:00.000-05:002008-02-20T03:16:00.000-05:00Heartless. Love, you could not have loved her, fo...Heartless. Love, you could not have loved her, for love would have made u answer her calls, love would have led u to go out and have drinks with her insead of some BROAD. Love would have had you call her back after you used the bathroom like you said. And I agree with MiMi, you walked away, your should have brought your drink and sat with her if you loved her, instead you walked away, not even buying her a drink when she asked. Well it is like they say, you never know what you have until it is goneAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17646926.post-92151042300888032952008-02-19T23:05:00.000-05:002008-02-19T23:05:00.000-05:00@ dejanae: damn you're good!!...great question...@...@ dejanae: damn you're good!!...great question...<BR/><BR/>@ sir stephens: i'm sure you've heard this statement/phrase while romping around in naija: 'you don fuck up!'...yeah, you fucked up...i would have probably reacted the same...except i tend to be the type to completely cut you off, like don't talk to me when you see me-blame it on my moon in scorpio...but, hopefullu you learned from it...you men...*shakes head*...guerreiranigerianahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13528694326611103860noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17646926.post-21806051600479399872008-02-19T20:56:00.000-05:002008-02-19T20:56:00.000-05:00Bernice - you are right, he did not deserve you. ...Bernice - you are right, he did not deserve you. For value and respect should be shown all the time, especially to one you consider your man or woman or significant other. You are truly a classy woman<BR/><BR/>Don - whats up with the baby moma mental stuff, we may need to exchange stories<BR/><BR/>Anon - i guess i was using her, i had to if i did not respect or appreciate her feelings, i guess i took her for granted<BR/><BR/>Meg - u are right, it was bad. thanks for the drive by and do return<BR/><BR/>Pretty - what can i say, the young black male PHD, memphis mac, i wasnt settled but i can say I have never cheated on my woman, or wife, or girl friend. she was up to getting to woman status and i blew it<BR/><BR/>Tony Oh - good look folkAll-Mi-T [Thought Crime] Rawdawgbuffalohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08843040863123899426noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17646926.post-53087333314407734632008-02-19T19:44:00.000-05:002008-02-19T19:44:00.000-05:00It is great that she presented herself as a classy...It is great that she presented herself as a classy lady. It is apparent that she did not deserve you at that point in your lives.<BR/><BR/>Personally, 17 years ago, my "friend" of a mutual physical relationship had gotten engaged and did not tell me. I was informed casually by a friend, his co-worker, who had no knowledge of the nature of our relationship. Initially I was "pissed". Not because of his engagement, but because he did not respect me enough to tell me; I was somewhat interested in another guy at the time, anyway.<BR/>It took two months before I had the nerve to call and confront him. I kept my cool. His excuse was that, "I thought that you would be mad." Go figure!<BR/><BR/>My satisfaction came four months later, when he called me back. The engagement had been called off.<BR/><BR/>I am thankful that I saw his true nature before emotions became too involved. Years later, I met someone who has had the upmost respect for me from the moment we met. We have been together for 13.5 years.<BR/><BR/>Note: A few years ago, I ran into my former "friend". He said that he had tried to find me in the past to apologize for his treatment of me during our relationship. He did not find me because I was married and had a new last name. Go figure!Sista GPhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06782105568336804901noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17646926.post-38769627200524734452008-02-19T19:15:00.000-05:002008-02-19T19:15:00.000-05:00I do agree that such adversity makes a person bett...I do agree that such adversity makes a person better than they were before. Wise.Donhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02904024507867487521noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17646926.post-88560980150468119532008-02-19T19:14:00.000-05:002008-02-19T19:14:00.000-05:00I liked this post all-mi-tBut I don't want to talk...I liked this post all-mi-t<BR/><BR/>But I don't want to talk about it, cause it brings back too many bad memories of my mental patient baby momma...Donhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02904024507867487521noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17646926.post-11346807670228836622008-02-19T14:32:00.000-05:002008-02-19T14:32:00.000-05:00Strange, but it seems as if this is coming straigh...Strange, but it seems as if this is coming straight from your heart. You seem not the type of person to do this. But if you did, and u did not apologize then, she should have been mad for a few days or weeks. But I don't think you understand, I think walking away from her and going back to your date was the bad thing. That is what an evil, ungodly and mean spirited person would do - sounds like you were using her, were you?<BR/><BR/>MiMiAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17646926.post-14357401689752706032008-02-19T12:12:00.000-05:002008-02-19T12:12:00.000-05:00Oh dude, that was bad. Man up and tell the ladies ...Oh dude, that was bad. Man up and tell the ladies the truth. It causes much less damage, for all concerned.<BR/><BR/>:)Meg Kelsohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14593956594655082614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17646926.post-27408980575441646092008-02-19T12:01:00.000-05:002008-02-19T12:01:00.000-05:0010 years ago? Damn Bro you were...I ain't gonna a...10 years ago? Damn Bro you were...I ain't gonna age you out but, you should've known better, real game is lettin' 'em all know and then letting them make the choice to stick around. But shit it's not like you were her husband...she needs to get over it.<BR/><BR/>My mom always told me when hubby and I were dating that I was not married, and I could see who you wanted. <BR/><BR/>As long as he respected my time as mine and I the same for him we didn't sweat the other shit.<BR/><BR/>SOS band said it best...I don't care about your other girls...just be good to me.PrettyBlackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10165266284046402228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17646926.post-59848805651955581062008-02-19T11:12:00.000-05:002008-02-19T11:12:00.000-05:00You're a greater man now as a result of this situa...You're a greater man now as a result of this situation because you're reflecting on your past mistakes and have amended them with kindness. So don't feel bad, we all have made mistakes, that's why they put erasers on pencils.<BR/>Now write the next chapter in ink!Tonyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05272192855972041883noreply@blogger.com