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Saturday, April 22, 2006
more input needed
for the novel trying to complete by end of summer ladies 2 questions:
how do u make or let your man know he is desirable
and
2] what do u do for him to show such
tentative working title: never happy, never satisfied
My man and I have a long distance relationship. I live in central Illinois and he lives in Minneapolis. Trying to let him know how much he means to me calls for lots of creativity. We've been together for almost 3 years and I'm constantly trying to show him how important he is to me. For example, I send him short emails throughout the day to let him know I'm thinking about him. We call them "drop" emails. I send him ecards and sometimes I send him cards in the mail. I send him flowers at work (although, he wishes I wouldn't spend my money on him like that). But for me, it's not just about telling him he's important to me; it's about showing him. Once, I surprised him with an extremely romantic dinner - candles, soft music, italian food and wine. As side dishes, I went to the resturant where we had our first date and picked up somethings I knew he'd remember, like the bread and salad dressing. No occasion; just because. We video cam almost every night. My boyfriend is a true romantic; I never was until I met him. Because I know him, I'm always trying to raise the bar a little bit to show him how much he means to me. For all the things he does for me, what I do for him still pales in comparison but I keep trying. We've had our arguements and quite a few times almost called it quits, but we're still hanging in there even with all of the distance. I hope this answers your questions. Maybe a little long but...
I often suprise him with a (naughty) card or X rated text msg. He loves that; kind of msg that keeps him sitting at his desk for a while, because getting up would embarrass him. *wink*
even though I cant...I attempt to cook...or I'll clean the house, or I'll buy something when I see something he might like or want...I guess it's the little things. He does the same for me.
Usually I tell him I think he's desirable. I will send him X-rated text messages telling him that I am thinking about him. During sex I'll say he's the best I've ever had (even if he's not). With my last long term boyfriend I use to just look over at him and smile. He knew what I was thinking about.
1) you let him know he is desirable by telling him. Andre 3000 hit it on the spot when he said "I just want to lay in your hair" Something to that extent...request a song on the radio for him. They like that on the low.
2) what do I do? Shower him with love, physical and mental. What do I do? what I know he likes...that way he doesn't have to ask/tell and I won't feel like some love slave.
touching him and telling him in casual conversation.
Sometimes when I'm talking I'll just yell out, damn you're a phione azz man and then continue to talk. (He gets a kick out of that.)
sometimes i'll just lean over after he says something in public and whisper in his ear about how wet he made me when he said something about what he was talking about.
low methods are post it notes stuck to his windshield, a tap on the ass for no reason at all, cat calls when he walks out the bathroom, middle of the night touching sessions until we're doing something, text messages and so forth.
That title sounds like me. Sounds like an interesting book.
ReplyDeleteOpen my mouth and tell him! "Baby you're so fine," etc. And touch him a lot - give him an almost constant physical connection.
ReplyDeleteMy man and I have a long distance relationship. I live in central Illinois and he lives in Minneapolis. Trying to let him know how much he means to me calls for lots of creativity. We've been together for almost 3 years and I'm constantly trying to show him how important he is to me. For example, I send him short emails throughout the day to let him know I'm thinking about him. We call them "drop" emails. I send him ecards and sometimes I send him cards in the mail. I send him flowers at work (although, he wishes I wouldn't spend my money on him like that). But for me, it's not just about telling him he's important to me; it's about showing him. Once, I surprised him with an extremely romantic dinner - candles, soft music, italian food and wine. As side dishes, I went to the resturant where we had our first date and picked up somethings I knew he'd remember, like the bread and salad dressing. No occasion; just because. We video cam almost every night. My boyfriend is a true romantic; I never was until I met him. Because I know him, I'm always trying to raise the bar a little bit to show him how much he means to me. For all the things he does for me, what I do for him still pales in comparison but I keep trying. We've had our arguements and quite a few times almost called it quits, but we're still hanging in there even with all of the distance. I hope this answers your questions. Maybe a little long but...
ReplyDeleteI often suprise him with a (naughty) card or X rated text msg.
ReplyDeleteHe loves that; kind of msg that keeps him sitting at his desk for a while, because getting up would embarrass him.
*wink*
Verbal compliments - short e-mails or postcards - lots of physical affection.
ReplyDeleteeven though I cant...I attempt to cook...or I'll clean the house, or I'll buy something when I see something he might like or want...I guess it's the little things. He does the same for me.
ReplyDeleteUsually I tell him I think he's desirable. I will send him X-rated text messages telling him that I am thinking about him. During sex I'll say he's the best I've ever had (even if he's not). With my last long term boyfriend I use to just look over at him and smile. He knew what I was thinking about.
ReplyDeleteTHEY SHOULD CHANGE THAT TO HOW DOES A MAN LET HIS WOMAN KNOW HE'S LOVES HER OR THAT SHE'S APPEALING?
ReplyDelete1) you let him know he is desirable by telling him. Andre 3000 hit it on the spot when he said "I just want to lay in your hair" Something to that extent...request a song on the radio for him. They like that on the low.
ReplyDelete2) what do I do? Shower him with love, physical and mental. What do I do? what I know he likes...that way he doesn't have to ask/tell and I won't feel like some love slave.
touching him and telling him in casual conversation.
ReplyDeleteSometimes when I'm talking I'll just yell out, damn you're a phione azz man and then continue to talk. (He gets a kick out of that.)
sometimes i'll just lean over after he says something in public and whisper in his ear about how wet he made me when he said something about what he was talking about.
low methods are post it notes stuck to his windshield, a tap on the ass for no reason at all, cat calls when he walks out the bathroom, middle of the night touching sessions until we're doing something, text messages and so forth.
I've bought flowers, laid rose petals, bathe and sent messages throughout the day....but the same has been done for me :)
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