Monday, October 09, 2006

the last 4 letters

Truth, trust, hurtThere are some things that are nonnegotiable. Most of these are esoteric, but nonetheless important and invaluable to mankind. However, I have come to learn that many of us have not accepted these esoteric concepts as being worthy of practicing, especially when it comes to being truthful and telling the truth.

It seems that many people are comfortable with being dishonest and would prefer to withhold the truth or even lie for whatever reason. If a person lies to you, they have no respect or value for you or themselves. I feel that all I have is my word, and that my words should be backed with action. In other words, if I state I will do something, I will; and if confronted on any subject, I feel obligated to tell the truth, regardless of the outcome.

No matter what you do when you interact with other people, be truthful and honest. By doing so, you can’t go wrong. The least of your problems is keeping up with your lie and your actions will leave other people with the observation that you deserve respect because of your truthfulness, despite the fact that it may hurt others. But then again, the truth hurts, and it is no coincidence that the last four letters in the word truth can be used to spell hurt; meaning it will always be better to be told a hurtful truth than to be told a comforting lie.

6 comments:

  1. cause u da bomb sister - keep that family tight - i know u taking care of yo man

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  2. interesting post, what prompted it?

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  3. well was listening to Mike Baisden one day onradio, and one of his callers said that about the last 4 letters, so I wrote about it, hope u liked it

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  4. I'm feeling you on this one. There is one thing to be diplomtic in your approach, but it is one thing to be inauthentic to ones that you love, and to those around you.

    Good post.

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