Monday, December 12, 2005

The Perfect Man

As many of you all know, I love to eat and I consider myself to be a connoisseur of fine foods as well as beverages. As a consequence, I am always out eating some where when I am not at home enhancing my own culinary skills. Given such I often find myself at the bar as such to expedite service and consumption.

I was out for such an experience this past week. Just so happened I sat adjacent to three young women who were having drinks. I wasn’t attempting to ease drop but they were talking rather loud considering the spoke with food in the mouths and in between sips of some green concoction in martini glasses. I summated they were not martini’s for I had never seen one of the frozen variety. They talked because they were excited that they had met two young, popular and successful moguls in the music industry. They spoke of how they met them and where they met them – in a strip club. How one was with his woman and the other was not. They even discussed how one, which was a producer, had informed her that he was married and that he wanted to “kick it with her”. She indicated that he did not wear a wedding ring at all.

They were enamored with these men and their money, so much that one said they were perfect. Her friend agreed and said something to the extent that yes they were because they were stars, on television, in the music industry, had money and were married. She continued that they were the best men because she would not have to be with them all the time and that they would be able to buy them “things”. I though a good man didn’t cheat on his wife or family. Maybe I’m wrong or just too old school. But if this is the case, a brother like me would never get a woman today because it looms that responsible, respectful people with character are not consider perfect specimens for companionship.

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

Unfortunately, committed and married are not words that define a GOOD or PERFECT man! In todays BLACK world men are weak if they are COMMITTED and MARRIED.....no one has to PUT UP WITH sistas and their DRAMA!....A GOOD MAN focuses on "DOING ME"....so F#@% a committment that includes variables other than 'self'!!!! Unfortunately...that is the formula for a GOOD/PERFECT Black MAN!....HMMPHFFF!

Ticia said...

These woman are mis-informed--no morals, standard, no self-worth...so what do you expect...

Geez---this world is a trip!

AuTh3nTiK said...

*Sigh* This is so sad but so true. This is what it has come to. Everyone chasing after meaningless, empty relationships looking to be filled. I'll stay a single virgin before I ever get in a relationship that means NOTHING. Life is too short and I love myself too much.

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