Friday, August 18, 2006

is she a gold diger-lol

This aint mine, my boy sent me this on line, you make the call.

*Does the girl come off as super charming, super classy, and image conscious?

*Does they seem long on personality and short on personal content?

*Do they come off as the type of person who would be judgemental about, non-character aspects of a person?

*Do they seem like the person who is "always on the guest list" of the in-crowd and seems to put a large part of her self-image into that fact?

*Do they seem to have a life-of-the-party, celebrity-of-the-scene persona?

*Do they seem to get fingerpointy about people who have a considerably "less than cool" image?

*Do they seem to be totally and completely lacking in personality or fashion quirks?

*Do they come off as the type of person whose life centers on charming and witty, but superficial conversation topics (especially he-said/she-said gossip)?

*Do they seem to get thrills from having or doing this "faaa-buu-lous" this and that - especially if it will make for great monday morning water cooler conversations?

*Can you see them fitting in well with the types of crowds whose body language, tone, and general personas seem to say "ACTION AND EXCITEMENT! THAT is what we are all about"? (Especially if this is accompanied by airs saying "Anybody who can't 'keep up' with us simply is not worthy to be treated as an equal")

If you answer "Yes" to a substantial number of these questions, then I think you should (to use weather service terminology) a "Golddigger Watch", even if she doesn't seem to have a lot of expensive clothing, or this and that. Of course, many women will score "Yes" on at least one of those traits. Furthermore, not every woman who scores highly on these traits will necessarily be a golddigger. EVEN SO...a substantial number of "Yes" answers should be a warning sign telling you "Proceed With Caution! Higher Than Normal Chance of Her Being a Golddigger!".

You may or may not disagree with these traits, but that's what life's experience taught me. I'm not rich, but I've seen too many women with a lot of those traits in my life to completely dismiss them as a warning sign of a woman you should avoid.

Bottom line, If you're with someone only for the money, and you pretend to love them...then you're not just a gold-digger...you're a liar...and that's never good. Because theres nothing wrong with a guy spoiling his woman but if your guy is treating you right then you should spoil him back. Not just a one way situation..Thats what a gold digger is




18 comments:

Mizrepresent said...

T...ummmm, u do like this topic, don't you, so spill it, how many golddiggers have u run across? In my experience, whether it be in the club, bar, etc...when GD enters the room, jaws drop, and just about everyman in the place is trying to hook up with her, despite the GD warning and u know what, every woman in the place could spot her a block away...sooooo, if y'all keep chasin why the warning???? She is what she is and wants what she wants, i guess the real question is are the men willing to give her what she wants, or can they afford to? If not, check out the women still sitting at the table, maybe dressed in their best Come Sunday dress, or a TJ Maxx knock-off, just as cute, not as sexy, or wearing anything quite that revealing, but can hold a conversation, a job, cook and don't want all your money, not a Gold Digger, but worth their weight in Gold.

Torrance Stephens bka All-Mi-T said...

A few, they were all mine. But I couldnt post what lead me to write it because it is for rolling out. so email me asap and i will send u the real essay. my boy sent me this. I dont go to clubs or nothing, and i dont see them at the aau basketball games

Anonymous said...

I agree with mizrepresent. I always think of a golddigger as the "light" version of a prostitute - only 100 calories! haha! The only difference is that the sex for money exchange is neither blatant, nor obvious. Now we all know the relationship between john and working girl is a symbiotic one, why would one of a golddigger and her man with deep pockets be any different? You can warn as many men to avoid these women as you want, but too many are willing to pay the price for ass.

Torrance Stephens bka All-Mi-T said...

lol

Daigoji Gai said...

I wish you could have provided this analysis 4 years ago sir, it would have saved me much heartache, torment, and psychological trauma...

That said, I think everyone needs at least one GD experience, it turned me from a naive boy into a man and made me appreciate the real woman I found.

-Daigoji Gai aka Kareem
Dysfunctional Rants

Anonymous said...

THIS IS SO TRUE: Bottom line, If you're with someone only for the money, and you pretend to love them...then you're not just a gold-digger...you're a liar...and that's never good. Because theres nothing wrong with a guy spoiling his woman but if your guy is treating you right then you should spoil him back. Not just a one way situation..Thats what a gold digger is
I DONT WORK AND MY MAN DOES EVERYTHING FOR ME, SO I DO WHAT I CAN, I EVEN WENT TO HIS OFFICE AND SATISFIED HIM ONE DAY; I TAKE HIM LUNCH, AND HE HAS MEALS WAITING FOR HIM AT LEAST ONE DAY A WEEK AND HE LIVES ON THE OTHERSIDE OF THE BRONX. I LOVE HIM AND SHOW HIM BEFORE ANOTHER WOMAN DOES. SOME DAYS AFTER HIS HARD DAY HE WALKS IN AND FIND ME IN HIS BED - HE DESERVES THE BEST. HE'S A GOOD MAN AND I WANT TO KEEP HIM SO I SHOW HIM...KAT...NICE BLOG

Torrance Stephens bka All-Mi-T said...

Kat
your man is lucky, maybe u should give lessons. what ever u do keep that relationship tight.

Anonymous said...

thank you. i wanted to say u kind of cute, nice smile, i bet your woman takes good care of you, not to mention you smart and sexy......kat

your said...

phentermine nice :)

Torrance Stephens bka All-Mi-T said...

i dont know what a woman is supposed to do for a man, so u tell me

Mizrepresent said...

T:

i dont know what a woman is supposed to do for a man, so u tell me.

T, please, who u kiddin man? If u don't know, then perhaps u with the wrong one.

Torrance Stephens bka All-Mi-T said...

Im just saying i dont think it is a gender thing, people should do whatever and be willing to bot sacrifice and comprimise for whom they love - its just i dont know what a woman would do - not me or what i would like, sorry for being philosophical, and like i said, if i met a gold digger she got little other than what i gave her, no diff from the non gold diggers , im a frugal man, and belive money is to make money and not to spend, seems both type of women disagreee with that - lol,

Anonymous said...

I agree with mizrepresent. I always think of a golddigger as the "light" version of a prostitute - only 100 calories! haha! The only difference is that the sex for money exchange is neither blatant, nor obvious. Now we all know the relationship between john and working girl is a symbiotic one, why would one of a golddigger and her man with deep pockets be any different? You can warn as many men to avoid these women as you want, but too many are willing to pay the price for ass........mzz21jjj

Anonymous said...

dang jjj then i guess all the women i know is hoez-lol

and kat - i think i got one - keepin my fingers crossed she ant no gold digger-tts

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