Yeechy and flagitious

The worse thing for me is interacting with fake and phony people. You know, the kind of folks who just do things that are fowl and evil and yeechy and flagitious. Now fowl can be discerned a number of ways. My folk often gives the example of when he took his 18-month old son from his former girl friend when he found out she was giving him gin and juice in his baby bottle – now that’s yeechy. Or about a woman that uses her child by keeping them away from their father because she is self-centered, selfish and desires to hurt the child and him – that’s yeechy. Or the person who always asks and wants and needs and complains but doesn’t even work and stays inside sleeping all day and in the clubs all night over being with and taking care of their family – that’s yeechy.

Such people justify their behavior as normal and acceptable and often blame all things that are negative on others and not themselves. Never being responsible and taking accountability for their actions. I guess if we look around us, for a person to exist as such on an interpersonal level may express the emotional miscues of one that do not love themselves. If one had loved for themselves then they could love others. But if here is no love of self, there is no love for anyone else and saying I love you for them is nothing but words with no action. Last I heard love is a verb meaning action.

The fowl and yeechy folks we interact with or know cannot express love nor an appreciation for life as a pure form of human bonding and interaction. This why their behavior is perceived as being of a smelly nature. So the next time someone you know exhibits yeechy behaviors, just let them be, stay away, live your life by example and not word. I mean I could say there is no war in Iraq or that no more troops are coming home in body bags, but that don’t make it true. Just as I can say I love you my child and still give you gin and juice in a bottle to shut you up, because I’m your mother.