Tuesday, March 07, 2006

22 actions (things that i do that i find women dont like)


*1 . Tell her she is beautiful, not hott, fine or sexy.
*2 . Hold her hand at any moment even if it just for a second.
*3 . Kiss her on the forehead.
*4 . Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
*5 . Always tell her you love her at any and all times.
*6 . When she is upset hold her tight and tell her how much she means to you.
*7 . Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.
*8 . Sing to her no matter how horrible your voice is.
*9 . Pick her over all the other girls you hang out with.
*10 . Write her notes.
*11 . Introduce her to family and friends as your girlfriend.
*12 . Play with her hair.
*13 . Pick her up, tickle her and play-wrestle with her.
*14 . Tell her funny jokes, tell her stupid jokes, just tell her jokes.
*15 . Let her fall asleep in your arms.
*16 . If she`s mad at you, kiss her.
*17 . Give her piggyback rides.
*18 . Bring her Flowers just because.
*19 . Look her in the eyes and smile.
*20 . Slow dance with her, even if there isn`t any music playing.
*21 . Kiss her in the rain.
*22 . If your in love with her . . . Tell her.


Mizrepresent said...

Fate is a funny mutha#%^&@!

This can't be right, absolutely everything i wish for is on your list....and yet i have yet to find the man who actually enjoy doing those things....

...and i wonder if she appreciates it when you do it...if she does...thumbs up! Recognize!!!!

if not.....you in the same boat as i....MIzzzzzzzdisappointed and hatin...but i can still dream.

da_my_t_c said...

I think that if more men did those things then, just maybe women wouldn't be so pressed about dollars. Most women believe that a man loves them if he is willing to spend money on them. But if a woman knows she is treasured above income, I believe that she might be less concerned with his desire to provide for her because she would know he would automatically.

Love said...

i can not understand why u think those r things that women don't like. Although it appears a bit superficial, a woman would treasure her man if he would supply her with the listed actions. And you must know and understand the although the list is plentiful...a woman is never satisfied....nice try though....lol

Torrance Stephens bka All-Mi-T said...

can a nigga ever satisfy a woman?sounds like the equelivent of solving Planks constant

Torrance Stephens bka All-Mi-T said...

ADENDUM: In order to explain the frequency distribution of radiation from a hot cavity (blackbody radiation) Plank proposed the ad hoc assumption that the radiant energy could exist only in discrete quanta which were proportional to the the frequency.

The Formula

h=Planks constant, 6.663 x 10 J Hz.
or C (speed of light) = λV to get E= h (c/λ)

Mz. Jonz said...

I like your list from 1-22...too bad you're there and I'm here...LOL

Viqi French said...

i'm feeling your love list, all but the tickling. i hate being tickled. isn't that almost like torturing a person, when you think about it? lol

I'm not a nice Gurl said...

I am a hopeless romantic so reading your list made me smile. My journey back from Xanadu was a difficult one but I made it. Your list sounds too good to be true so I wonder did you do those things because she mentioned them after each argument or do you really perform those tasks on the regular. I have been in my relationship for a lot of years and nothing gets on my dayum nerves more than when my man tries to do something just because I tell him. LOL Love the list but I will not share with my man for fear he may try them all in one night. You would hear about us on the news. "Man dies because he bought his woman flowers" He knew we couldnt afford them flowers.

Anonymous said...

nice girl thats just what i do and am--RDB

Ri said...

You have in a very entertaining way left your usual thought provoking format to a post on women. Well, good luck, Bro. When you figure them out, write a book and let me know. I will have an autographed copy, thank you very much.

Poetic Blue said...

Look man, where in the high holy hell are you finding your women? Your commentary on women get's a little more ummm shall we say special, everytime I come over here. May I offer some advice, get a better woman, we do exist.

Torrance Stephens bka All-Mi-T said...


Miz JJ said...

Black people need to believe they deserve love. It takes a strong woman to appreciate good loving and vice versa.

tianne_x said...

it depends on the woman......some like me love the attention and all the romantic stuff....well not everyday but every once in a while simple little gestures like those on your list can make a woman feel appreciated......on the otherhand some women don't like all that stuff.......or they think they don't...i don't know why but thats how it is......but hey u don't miss the water till the well runs dry

Georgiapeach said...

When I was younger, I never wanted an sensitive man. Now I yearn for one. Great post, because often women dislike the nicest things.

I would love for a man to sing for me.

Please don't play in my weave...lol. Only because I know it's not real..lol.

The L said...

Just printedt this and handed it to my husband! Thanks for the handbook! LOL! Nice blog by the way!

TheOneandOnlyInsanely said...

This is good shit!!

I love the forehead kisses, its so much more meaningful...

Singing is great even if you can't....

Definitely tell her you love her if you do. Many men look at this as a sign of weakness. Hell, I look at it as a sign of weakness and I haven't told those I love, that I do....

ConShusVerbz said...

is it more important to give someone what YOU desire to give them, or what they desire to receive? i think this is the bone of contention in the yard....and many walk away dazed from the confusion in not recognizing the best of intentions. ah love! :)

BashfulT said...

That's is so sweet! Crying now! Thank for sayingit, we do like to here it.