1] Stop smoking weed in front of your kids
2] Don’t curse around your kids or even worse curse at them.
3] Take that money from the clubs and bars and spend it on some piano or tap lessons or basketball
4] Turn them videos off and the radio on the morning and listen to NPR, sports talk, or suffer with the Disney radio (they good for teaching sentence structure and vocabulary).
5] If you are not working, do not put your children off with the baby sitter. Spend as much time with them as you can.
6] Stop fighting or beating on your woman (or man) in front of your children. They will suffer the most in the end. Violence is not the answer – least always.
7] Read to them all the time, and let the see you reading, especially newspapers each day.
8] When you can, sit at the table together and eat and talk
9] let them see honor, integrity and character by letting them see you live your life as such and by standing for what you believe and what is right.