Wednesday, November 09, 2005

SURE WAY TO GET ON OPRAH

Dear Oprah:

I am writing to you because I feel that you will read my letter first and understand how in such dire need of assistance I am. I am a man who is a single parent. I met a woman about 2 years ago, who claimed, as I did to here, that we were soul mates. I welcomed her into my home as is. She knew that I was a single parent, a man who was raising his son. She didn’t have any problems with that.

I proposed to her and gave her a two carat diamond ring. She meant the world to me. A few weeks later, we found out she was pregnant. That’s when it all started. I come to find out after the fact that she had a history of depression and some other psychological problems. In fact, she said she wanted to get an abortion, but wiser heads prevailed.
After the baby was born, she begins to flip out. Not only did she threaten to kill me, she also said she wanted to kill my son and gave me an ultimatum, either he goes or she goes. Of course, I suggested that she leave. But she didn’t, claiming that she loved me and didn’t want to leave or hurt us, but rather that she needed help.

This type of behavior continued on and off until the current state of things. She keyed my car and she also said she would burn down our hose and kill everyone, including our new born daughter. I can’t take this anymore. She even said that no one in my family, including my mother would see the baby ever; this was after we had planned three months prior to go to Memphis (my home) for my mother and grandmother to see the baby. What happened in Memphis was like a scene from a horror movie. Although two nights before we left for Memphis, she said that my mother would never see the child, the night before, she left, with the baby and got a hotel room. She said she didn’t want to go but that I could take the baby with me. She left instead, and I had to wait some four additional hours the following day before we could go – she came too although she said she didn’t want to. In the car the entire ride, she was screaming at the baby and even hit the car seat several times severely in an attempt to quite the baby down. I told her calmly, that that would only make the baby cry more. Meanwhile in the front seat, my son was furious and balling up his fist about to cry.

We made it to Memphis without any more grief. Bt we were not their in my mom’s house for two hours before she went on a triad and screamed that my mother would never see the baby again, and that she would never ever set foot in her house. Then she swung at my mother. My cousin, another female jumped and they started to fight a hotel and as much as I could, I tried to act like things were normal. But I couldn’t’ she even gave me my ring back and told my mother they she would never marry me and that it was over.

Back in Atlanta, things were as quiet as they could be. Outside of the ubiquitous I hate you, you are stupid, you are about shi*, I’m sorry, she had the never to ask me for her ring back as if she did not understand that such is a serious matter not to mention she had given it back twice before. I tried to be patient but I just continued to build up. Recently she took it to another level; she said that the child was not mine and that she had been meeting men in clubs and dating. She asked me to get her a permit to become a stripper and I refused, as a consequence she keyed my vehicle. The she said she wanted to be a prostitute at the bunny ranch, I said she had to do what she needed but I would not want her to do such and no man I figured would.

Now she says she hates me every day and that she is miserable being with me and that she will make my life and my son’s miserable. I ask her to leave and she wont and she said a man would put her out but that I was a punk because I wont put her and the baby in the streets with no where to go. I have also been trying to rebuild my house, it’s nice but it is old and not child proof. She wants it done right then but doesn’t understand that such takes time. She even got into it with my son, in which I told her that she was fussing about a 12 oz container of kool-aid. She told him that his mother hated him and that nobody loved him, I told him that was not the case and I also told her such. The next day, she accidentally burned her purse with her curling irons and asked me to get her another one, I said no, and she said she would get it anyway she could I said ok. The next day she lost her phone and blamed my son and me for it being missing. I don’t know what to do, as I type this I am at work with the child who I don’t know is mine but who I love so much. What can I do? I don’t know if she would come on your show about this topic but she would come for a make over or something, but she needs help and I can’t help here albeit I try every day. It is almost to the point where I may hit her. She slapped me yesterday and it took all I had to leave and go outside.

She only looks up to you and Star Jones (I think that’s her name).

Thanks just for listening

13 comments:

YouToldHarpoTaBeatMe said...

Forgive me for laughing, but I hardly see that persons letter as a ticket to Oprah. The neighborhood's big momma could tell him what to do for FREE. Big Momma probably would've said something to the effect of "Shake the daylights out of her, Baby, and see what she does", then headed back in the kitchen to finish preparing her peach cobbler.

Torrance Stephens bka All-Mi-T said...

or get her azz to the church one

Diamond Jim said...

Question? Why are you still there. Get some balls and either you and the kids leave or put the psycho bitch out.

eva_jawn said...

Precisely the reason I condone abortion.

diamondcrusted_p said...

Wow. in the magnificent words of Madea...'jesus saved her life, hallelujer' because I would've laid hands on her. Although feeling for you and the kids...the best route is to have her committed for her own good...she is a risk to you and yours...and God forbid you meet someone new.

BeKinky_Paula said...

Wow. That's unbelievable. Almost...I was expecting something else LOL ...but it sounds like post partum depression and possibly a personality disorder. There's something else there. I hope she's sought psychological help because that's not just being ignorant or foolish, that's something else...lol I would've called a crisis line or something because she's threatening other people's lives and she seemed to be hinting at suicide, IMO. Being a prostitute...doing whatever she has to to get a purse....seems like she didnt care what was going to happen to her. Or she was trying to manipulate you into feeling sorry for her...either way, that wasnt something that could go away on its on lol At least you didnt hit her though...

IVENTBYBLOGGING said...

nothing funny at all about that post. she's sick as hell and needs to be shot with an elephant tranquilizer...so she'd hibernate.

No one shud have to experience that..and u have to be careful handling mentally ill people as they are friggin unstable and unpredictable. if she'd threaten to kill her own child...what does she have to lose??
my gawd smh

Law said...

By no means is this funny or unbelievable... It's amazing how people act and react to other people and situations...

It's also amazing how bad things happen to GOOD people... HmMMMm!

I too am living in my own relationship hell that resulted in a child being born...

I am tired of the lies, game playing and distortion of the truth... Why can't people get them some act right and move the hell on!!!

ShanSoPink said...

Wow that sounds like a very scary situation. Do what you can to protect your kids man, when people show you they are crazy believe them. With all that's going on in the world now and mother's actually harming their children I would say do what you can to protect those kids because when this chick starts thinking threats are not getting your attention she might decide it's time for some action.

Sounds like you are trying to do what you can to handle the situation and I'll be praying for you and your babies!

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