Saturday, February 04, 2006

Trick or Treat

Yo, I am a father. I have the greatest son any man could ask for and recently, I added a daughter to the fold – not like she a yearling or something, but rather my newest clan member. I love the both to death and I have fears for both as well, but the fears I have for my son are completely different and not as scary as those I have contrived to develop for my daughter. Namely because as a man, you can accept some things as being inevitable, in particular as an Africa American man. But my daughter, I am just afraid to think.

With the new focus of our individualistic culture, I am afraid that my daughter will value something other than herself as being the most important commodity she has. As it stands, with videos and music, women are nothing more than hoes. Even in the movies, television soaps we see the same imagery. Now don’t get me wrong, I’m the kind of man who liked hoes, tricks, freaks, and bitches and unfortunately, via my south Memphis up-bringing referred to them as such. Even in the understanding that I did not regard the women in my family (with the exception one cousin) as being this way.


Now with a daughter, I am scared. I am scared that she will turn out to be one of these women who defines a man by how much money he has, or more specifically, how much money he will spend on her. I am afraid that if a man offers here a few hundred dollars, or a purse, she will get on her knees and service him orally. I’m afraid that she may end up doing something and selecting a man that may result in her being in a porn movie or worse, dead along some remote rural highway. Dang, I never thought being a father was so hard, but when you have little girls, it’s an entirely different picture. I just hope she will not be a trick, but rather a treat. Guess her mother and I got a ot of work in front of us.

9 comments:

Abeni said...

Those are realistic fears but as you say you just have to instil values and hope they stick

Blk Cowboy said...

My brother I feel the same fear. the key is to show your daughter the positive. my daughter is 12 (13 in one month), since birth, I've told & showed her what to expect from a man; opening the door, not seeing me hit her mother, explaning the 'game' boys/men play to rabbit dance... not to let men not disrespect. though it has been hard it has worked. when she turns 13 her mother will teach her the 'women' things. with all this being said, she has become a queen, boys respect her she sees the good and know the bad. just in case some young want to be player steps wrong the guns are at the door... Black Cowboy -

Brotha Buck said...

beautiful little girl.Your fears are warranted. I have two beautiful daughters. They're both grown. I really did my best, and I thought I instilled the right values, and introduced them to the right things. They turned out to be good girls, I love them. But damn. I won't go into what that damn is about.

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